Apps & Resources

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  • Overall TIPS

    1. Try color coding your calendar by class/activity.

    2. Add self-care to your calendars and routine.

    3. Subscribe to external calendars so that you only have to use one app (preferably the calendar built into your phone).

    4. Uncheck the visibility next to calendars you only need sometimes if you are feeling overwhelmed.

    5. Schedule time/reminders to check in with social friends, especially if you’re not good at remembering to reach out to people you care about. (Ex: Repeat every 8 weeks).

  • Beyond the obvious uses, some tips from how I really use Reminders (and similar basic apps) effectively for me:

    • Apple Reminders is my most used productivity tool, hands down, especially now that it seamlessly integrates with my iphone calendar, too. I can set multiple notification reminders for certain extremely important tasks as needed, on a schedule I can customize (for example, I can create one reminder for a test with multiple alarms/notifications: two weeks in advance, one week in advance, then two days before, the night before, and then when I need to leave to get there in time). 

    • You can share Reminders lists with accountability buddies to help you stay on track. I have done this many times with my college accountability clients who like to use Reminders for their schoolwork. 

    • Create a Brain Dump list. I have one physical notebook as well as one digital list on my Reminders.

      • Anytime I think of a task I need to do (so often happens when I’m in the middle of something else), I immediately jot it down on my Brain Dump list so I can more quickly get back to my original task.

      • When I eventually have time, I can organize it elsewhere (maybe putting something on the calendar or on another dedicated list), or I may just go ahead and tackle the task at hand. 

      • I’m also building the habit of spending 5 minutes about 30 minutes before I go to bed to check my brain dump list and add anything I can think of that might be swirling around in my brain.

      • Externalizing these tasks make them less overwhelming, and I can sleep better since my brain knows I put it somewhere so I’m less anxious about forgetting to remember it down the road (and yes, those verbs make sense to me and probably other neurodivergent people). 

      • So I have one alarm to remind myself to take those 5 minutes to do check my Brain Dump list. 

    • For some people, notifications have a critical peak utility after which they just become noise, and that peak happens differently for different people. 

      1. If you find yourself regularly dismissing notifications/timers, having trouble refocusing after the disruption of a notification, or are experiencing other drawbacks to having multiple pings or pop-ups, it’s probably time to manage your notifications. 

      2. Start by turning off all unnecessary notifications. Go to those apps (ex: News, social media) at certain intentional times rather than letting them rule your life every time someone you follow posts. 

      3. If they’re still overwhelming, make sure you decide if you want them to pop up (Banner) or only when you go to that app. Decide if you want a vibration or even sound reminder. For me, a ping will start to stress me out at the wrong moment! 

      4. If you’re like me, you might just want to set a few alarms. For example, I have a dedicated nightly alarm reminding me to log my tasks in my habit tracker each evening as I wind down. 

    • Create a Productive Procrastination list: A list of tasks that are good to do but are medium to low priority. One ironic symptom of ADHD is needing a distraction in order to actually focus on a different task. So yes, we may study with music on, but we also may only get certain tasks done if we’re using them to actively avoid something else. Why not work with this brain feature and create a list of procrastination items - that still ultimately are good to get done?

      • Example of what’s on my list right now: 

        • Water houseplants

        • Take out the recycling

        • Dust the ceiling fans

        • Move one thing that’s out of place

        • Sort the mail

        • Hang up new picture frame

    • Create a Hyperfocus list: Like the other specific lists on here, I fill this one with specific tasks. For me, it’s a mix of creative tasks that I’d like to do when I have the time and energy to do them guilt-free and tasks that in general need a little more complex decision-making or overall effort to complete. 

    • If you’re not using a Habit Tracker elsewhere, you can also use Reminders to at least write out your Morning and Evening routines, and perhaps even build routine lists based on energy level (as discussed below in the Habitify section). 

    • Ask for help! Technology is always changing, and those who are good with tech are usually more than willing to show you how to use a new feature. I know now you can make a lot of automations and widgets to make apps even more usable, but I don’t necessarily always know how to do these without reading a tutorial, watching a YouTube video, or asking a friend or family member to show me how to set it up. 

  • Create customized Do Not Disturb settings.

    Turn on ScreenTime at least to track your usage, even if you don’t set any restrictions for yourself.

Built-In Basics

Focus/ScreenTime Apps

  • For when you’re serious about reducing your screen time or at least changing how you use it, whether overall or just with specific distracting apps. 


    How I use it: Pick 1-2 apps that are my biggest time sucks (ex: News feed; TikTok; Instagram) to lock through the app. I need to actually want to reduce my time with these, because Naze will make it a little annoying to do so by design. Set up common reasons you use that app, noting if certain tasks are productive while others are more basic procrastination. The app makes it easy with defaults if you don’t want to customize. Now, when you want to unlock that app, you choose a reason and hold for a few seconds to unlock. The app will remind you of your current streak of non-distracted use of your phone so you really commit. Then you set an intentional time limit you want to be on the app - so you don’t accidentally waste endless hours without at least thinking about it. 


    Pros: Creates friction that really helps those with executive dysfunction change their habits. Makes you more intentional about how long you’re using your phone, and for what reasons. Feels less like a babysitter and more like a moment of self-reflection and intention; I feel the choices I’m making and feel in control. Really helps with giving yourself an offramp from a rabbit hole of endless scrolling with regular check-ins. Once you set it up, works any time you try to use one of your locked apps, not just when I open the Naze app. So, if I don’t trust my willpower, this extra backup protects my time and overall goal of reducing my screentime. Since it can only impact a few apps if you want, it doesn’t make it annoying to use my phone in general like some other screentime control apps, which makes it easier for me to stick with. 

    Cons: Can be annoying (by design) so you really need to be committed to changing the way you approach your screentime. Wish it had more customizable time limits when setting intentions to use a distracting app - sometimes I’m okay with scrolling for an hour, and multiple interruptions when I always intended to take that long can get on your nerves. Is paid so not worth it for everyone. 

    Similar apps: Opal; ScreenZen; Flora; Freedom; Refocus; OffScreen

    If Naze still isn’t enough, you may need a physical solution like Brick or something similar to stick to your intended technology use. 


  • Opal’s unique strength is “Session Difficulty” feature with Normal, Timeout, and Deep Focus modes. Opal’s settings are even more robust than Naze, so you’re going to want to be serious about your screentime habits.

    Timeout mode forces you to focus for longer and longer periods to unlock the Snooze button. Deep Focus can’t be ended early.

    Tip: You can even turn on (and probably should) a setting prohibiting uninstalling the app while you are in a Deep Focus session.

    One setup that might work is this author’s recommendation:

    • 9 AM to 5 PM — Work Focus

    • 8:30 PM to 8:30 AM — Sleepy Sleep

    • Both are Deep Focus sessions

    • Some notable distracting apps/websites that are blocked — YouTube, WhatsApp, LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, and Reddit.

    For a detailed review, read this article.

  • Features include forcing you to do exercises before opening your apps.

  • Launched with the help of Hank Green, my clients and I were all pretty excited to see some features that I’ve been looking for from other apps for years in Focus Friend. Really set up with neurodivergence in mind, and the aesthetics are adorable if you like that sort of thing. Has good in-app features including Focus timers and Break timers which make for easy implementation of Pomodoro-style timers. 

    Deep Focus Mode (in Pro mode) has similar features as Naze offers but without the full intentionality around purpose built in; however, a quick swipe up on your phone can still provide you with access to all of your unrestricted apps without disrupting your bean’s knitting. TLDR if you want to, you can sort of trick the app into thinking you’re focused if you haven’t been realistic about which apps you need to block. Know thyself, and if you know you’re the kind of person who might accidentally, a little bit, bypass the system (like I am), this app may not be as much help for you to reach your goals unless you’re serious about getting strict with yourself. 

    Cons: Be careful that you CAN use real money for in-app purchases on skins. Unless you’re actively in Deep Focus Mode, you won’t be restricted from using distracting apps, so keep that in mind. If you need a little more of a nudge to stay on track, you may need something “a little stronger” like Naze or Opal. 

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Study and Workplace Productivity Apps

  • Visit CSW by clicking here. Truly Free Study with Me streams; customizable Pomodoro and Flowtime Study Timers; and Task Management tools. Goal Sharing in some study sessions to boost accountability. They even have whole rooms with synchronized Pomodoro timing.

    Body doubling is one of the most effective methods to help you stay on task during study sessions. If you don’t have regular access to an in-person study group, join online study livestreams for free 24 hours/day with other people focusing on work or school.

    Be sure to read any community rules or guidelines before you join! All public study rooms are moderated spaces designed for respectful, focused studying.

    Public, private, and team sessions available with no subscription fees.

    Chill, Study, and Work modes with different vibes for different levels of desired focus.

    Turning on your camera is optional, but research does show it improves accountability and productivity.

    Also has Workspaces that compete for free with commonly used apps like Monday, Asana, Notion (and others).

  • Access StudyStream here:

  • Features include forcing you to do exercises before opening your apps.

  • Launched with the help of Hank Green, my clients and I were all pretty excited to see some features that I’ve been looking for from other apps for years in Focus Friend. Really set up with neurodivergence in mind, and the aesthetics are adorable if you like that sort of thing. Has good in-app features including Focus timers and Break timers which make for easy implementation of Pomodoro-style timers. 

    Deep Focus Mode (in Pro mode) has similar features as Naze offers but without the full intentionality around purpose built in; however, a quick swipe up on your phone can still provide you with access to all of your unrestricted apps without disrupting your bean’s knitting. TLDR if you want to, you can sort of trick the app into thinking you’re focused if you haven’t been realistic about which apps you need to block. Know thyself, and if you know you’re the kind of person who might accidentally, a little bit, bypass the system (like I am), this app may not be as much help for you to reach your goals unless you’re serious about getting strict with yourself. 

    Cons: Be careful that you CAN use real money for in-app purchases on skins. Unless you’re actively in Deep Focus Mode, you won’t be restricted from using distracting apps, so keep that in mind. If you need a little more of a nudge to stay on track, you may need something “a little stronger” like Naze or Opal. 

  • College Connection Camp

       $975 all-inclusive

    Healthy Dating & Relationship Skills                                                  

       $900/semester or 2 payments of $450.
    A superbill for out-of-network Occupational Therapy services provided upon request.

    Segue Getaways Independent Living Trip

       $2500 all-inclusive

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